How to Change a Child's Life

If I were to ask a room full of peo­ple to name one teacher who made a dif­fer­ence in their lives, who inspired them, who lit a fire in them and changed their direc­tion for­ever, I’m cer­tain that nearly every per­son would not only imme­di­ately think of a teacher, but would have a great story to tell about him or her. Kath­leen Parker recently wrote about such a teacher, and that story got me think­ing about those kinds of experiences.

I said for many years that if I could make that kind of dif­fer­ence in just one student’s life, my whole career would have been worth it. I still believe that. But why should I be sat­is­fied with that?

What if I made it a mis­sion not to inspire one child, but to inspire every child. What if I set a goal to do it not just once in my career, but every day?

What if school could be a place where expe­ri­ences like that hap­pen not by chance, but by design? What if we set out to engi­neer an envi­ron­ment and a process and a com­mu­nity where light­ing a fire is the rule, where shin­ing moments are the rou­tine. What if every child in our care left school every day feel­ing val­ued, encour­aged, smart, and capable?

Every child. Every day.

Is it even pos­si­ble? I’m not sure I’d even know how to begin. But I can’t help but think it’s worth try­ing to fig­ure out. What do you think?

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3 Responses to “How to Change a Child's Life”

  1. Melissa | May 25, 2010 at 2:40 pm #

    Great post! I love the para­graph where you talk about “light­ing a fire” being a rule. I would want to put my child in a school where “every child in our care left school every day feel­ing val­ued, encour­aged, smart, and capable.”

  2. pamthompson | May 27, 2010 at 11:58 am #

    What a lovely idea! This is why peo­ple say that it’s the teacher that makes a dif­fer­ence. Rela­tion­ships are so impor­tant. If a child feels safe and val­ued they are bound to be more open to learning.

  3. Diana Laboy-Rush | June 1, 2010 at 7:23 pm #

    Very well put! What if this was the met­ric by which a teacher were mea­sured. I remem­ber the teach­ers who did this for me and an argu­ment can be made for the impact it has had on who I am today. What a mes­sage.… Thank you!

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